Do you practice the art and ritual of yoni worship? Yoni worship is honoring, loving and adoring the yoni {Sanksrit for vagina} through various self-love and/or self-pleasure practices. The yoni is the sacred portal to the Divine feminine, sexual energy {Shakti}, oneness and sacred union with the Divine masculine, pleasure, sexual healing, awakening and embodiment.
The yoni is/was revered in many different cultures as being a sacred space for union between consciousness and life-force energy. The masculine and feminine energies combine and co-create thorough the yoni for spiritual enlightenment and embodiment of the god and goddess.
The yoni is where you, as a woman, can experience deep levels of pleasure, bliss, healing, love, awakening and ecstasy through self-pleasure or lovemaking with a partner.
Worshiping your yoni gives you permission to accept, honor and fully love your body and sexuality as she is right now. She is perfect and whole as is. Pleasure, sensuality and sexuality are your divine birthrights.
The yoni also tends to carry the most trauma, shame, guilt, pain and suffering passed through lineages and generations of repressed feminine energy and sexuality. Healing the relationship with your yoni will allow you to shed layers, unraveling the web of repression that we as women carry collectively. I’ll share with you some of my favorite rituals and more!
My favorite yoni worship rituals:
- Mirror work- use a mirror to gaze at your yoni fully and lovingly. I bought a fancy silver handheld mirror to do my mirror yoni worship ritual. Any mirror in size will do. Spend at least five minutes honoring and noticing the size, shape, texture, color etc. of your yoni. Let go of any judgement you may have regarding what you think your yoni “should” look like. Society has a way of ingraining that our bodies should look a certain way, generally to aesthetically please men. This is bullshit. Your yoni is a goddess so worship her as so.
- Yoni Massage- use warm coconut oil to give your entire yoni and womb a nice loving massage. Imagine rubbing away any judgement, shame, trauma or pain as you massage pure divine love into your yoni and womb.
- The Feather Seduction Technique- use a peacock feather or whatever feels good for you and gently run it over your entire pubic region and yoni. Close your eyes and simply notice the sensations as your body awakens. Do you feel pleasure? Is it arousing? Melt into it fully….Yoni massage- use warm coconut oil to give your entire yoni and womb a nice loving massage. Imagine rubbing away any judgement, shame or pain as you massage pure divine love into your yoni and womb.
- Jade egg work- use a jade egg or yoni egg of choice to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, awaken your sexual energy and heal on all levels. (more on this below)
I also love to write poetry in honor of my yoni and Shakti.
Here’s one of my sensual Yoni Worship musings below:
Early morning yoni worship.
This ritual is about honoring.
Adoring.
Accepting.
But wholly loving.
Finding pleasure and sacredness in the curves and folds.
Like rose petals.
The yoni is the portal to healing, pleasure, Divine union, love, ecstasy and so much more.
Do you make time to worship your yoni?
The sacred space of your body that births life and creative projects.
That opens you up to surrender, trust and intimacy.
That allows you to heal the shame, guilt and trauma.
Your yoni embodies the Goddess.
She is awakened.
Sunday is my favorite day for worshiping, honoring and celebrating not only my sensuality and sexuality through sacred ritual, prayer and other healing embodiment practices, but it’s also a day I spend time giving my yoni some extra love and divine attention.
Here’s another poem I crafted during my Sunday sensual ritual:
Sunday morning ritual.
Sensuality blossoming.
Touching my body is my prayer.
It’s my holy worship.
It’s my honoring of the divine feminine.
The way the candle flames flicker and dance along the walls.
Casting oblong shadows that move like two lovers in a passionate embrace.
I hear my heart beating.
I feel my soul melting further into my being.
My essence glimmering with love.
My body moving even slower.
Circling.
Undulating.
Rising.
Falling.
Like tides pulled by the magnificent moon.
The gentle, yet powerful awakening.
The firm, but fluid way I embody.
I fill myself with sacred love.
With beauty, pleasure and sensuality.
I open a little more.
Surrender a little deeper.
Shedding another layer.
Unraveling.
Coming undone.
Under the touch of my own hands.
Fingertips trailing.
Feeling.
Not just the surface though.
Feeling into my divinity.
Into my soul as she expresses herself in my blood, bones, skin and muscles.
Feeling her so wholly and completely.
Embodying her as she is.
If you could write a poem to your yoni, what would you say? How can you show gratitude to her?
I’ll forever be grateful to the sensual and sexual practices, tools and rituals that I use or engage with for healing, embodiment, awakening, self-love, pleasure, divine union and spiritual enlightenment. Awakening and embodying my sacred sensuality and sexuality has been the most profound experience and journey in my life. Thinking back to all of the shame, trauma, guilt, stagnancy and blocks I’ve experienced in my body and life since a young age has made me realize that this is the journey I was destined for from before birth…perhaps even lifetimes. And not only destined to awaken, embody and experience it myself, but to also share this as my divine love and sacred gift, service and offering to the world. The power and beauty of ritual, prayer, worshiping and honoring when it comes to my sensuality, body, yoni, Shakti (sexual, creative, life force energy) femininity, heart, soul and life in general has deeply impacted me. It’s rooted within me and will remain there forever. There’s no going back anymore. I wouldn’t even want to if I could.
Using the jade egg, for instance, has deeply and powerfully transformed the relationship with my yoni, Shakti and sexuality as a whole along with my connection to the divine and god/dess. To earth. To others. To animals. To everything and nothing all at once.
Recently I experienced something new…another layer being shed and released, but more powerfully than I’d ever experienced before.
After a few sexual energy breathing practices and a good amount of time self-pleasuring with my jade egg in, I experienced the most profound and intense orgasm ever, which immediately rolled into my heart shattering open beautifully and hard sobs with warm tears consuming me. It was cathartic. It was healing. Releasing. Pleasurable. Ecstacy. Deeply intimate. This is what we need as a society. Sexual healing. Sacred sexuality and divine union within ourselves and with a partner/lover. Conscious. Sacred. Holy. Love. Orgasmic on all levels. Healing. Every time you orgasm in this way you are releasing all of the trauma, repression, guilt, shame and pain that you’ve carried for your whole life. Shit that may not even belong to YOU, but to your lineage or ancestors. To the millions of women who have walked this planet before us. Embrace divine love. Let it in. Fully.
We need more women (just like you!) honoring and worshiping the yoni through sacred rituals. Especially using an amazing tool like the jade egg.
The jade egg is one of my favorite sexual healing and embodiment tools. If you aren’t familiar with a jade egg, essentially it’s a crystal (in this case its the stone/crystal jade) shaped like an egg, which can then be inserted into the yoni (vagina). They may also be referred to as yoni eggs and come in many different crystals and stones, each having its own special and magical healing and awakening properties for the body and yoni as well as emotionally and spiritually.
Rose quartz is excellent for opening the heart and finding deep, medicinal self-love from within. Obsidian is great for soaking up negative energy. Jade is great for sexual healing, spiritual awakening and releasing shame, trauma and pain in the yoni and pelvic region. Jade eggs help with sexual energy awakening, cultivation and embodiment, although any yoni egg helps you do this with intention.
The jade egg helps you strengthen and tone the pelvic floor, helping with incontinence and weak bladder problems. I got into the jade egg for the sexual healing and sexual energy harnessing properties personally, but I do find myself more orgasmic, easily aroused, flowing when it comes to yoni lubrication and I’ve released a ton of pent up emotions and trauma that not only belong to me, but to an ancient lineage of women before me. I use the jade egg at least a few times a week and it’s part of my yoni worship ritual. I have to say that it has truly transformed how I view and honor my yoni, feminine energy and Shakti.
The jade egg allows me to trust, surrender and connect to god/dess and the divinity within myself and any lover or partner I share my sexual energy and/or yoni with. It has increased my orgasmic potential and capacity for pleasure on all levels. I couldn’t love this sacred tool more!!! More to come on the jade/yoni egg in the future…I’m actually planning to get trained on it more and will eventually have a Sensual Playshoppe with all kinds of yummy goodies like jade eggs and rose quartz yoni wands. I’m so excited for things coming ahead!
Drop me a comment or love note below and let me know what you think! Do you use a jade egg? Do you practice yoni worship? If not, what’s holding you back?
xx