Today we are talking about….ANAL SEX.
Yes, we’re going there. Descending into the part of you that feels naughty, forbidden and taboo. Yet it’s the part of you that longs to come out and play.
Why is anal sex so taboo and forbidden? Well, there is the obvious reason that our society tends to see the ass as unclean territory, not just physically but on a deeper more metaphorical level.
Some might even see anal sex as seedy…dirty…wrong. Which is why I think we should all start bringing more anal play into our lives.
I’m an advocate for sexual shadow work — facing that inner shadow seductress (the archetype that represents our sexual shadows and inner darkness) — and the ass is definitely sexual shadow territory.
I asked the women in my private Facebook group the other day what they wanted to know about anal sex.
Here’s some of the hesitations and concerns they experienced and perhaps you can relate…
What is the emotional and spiritual side of anal? I notice it takes me a long time to open up.
I have serious blocks about anal.
How do you make it pain-free and actually pleasurable?
How do you do it?
How do you get it in?
Is it clean? And how do you prepare yourself beforehand to clean yourself?
I’ll definitely be making a second video talking more about anal stimulation moves and anal sex positions so you can have more comfort and pleasure during anal play. For now, I’m sharing what you really need to know to have anal sex that is pain-free and actually orgasmic!
I’d love to know if you want more information in the future on anal sex, anal orgasms or anal play in general so I can answer them in an upcoming video.
I would love for you to share this video with any woman in your life (or a lover) to spread the anal pleasure love! You can subscribe to my YouTube channel here to stay updated with my weekly video.
Want to stay in touch?
Drop me a comment below and let me know:
- Have you tried anal before?
- If so, do you have a tip or technique to share?
- If not, what’s your hesitation to dive into anal pleasure?
xx
Amber
Hi Amber,
I am a French guy (26). I know that your activity is normally designed for women, but I just wanted to congratulate you for your videos and generally speaking for your initiative. I find it is still very rare nowadays to meet young people who succeed in connecting sex, love and spirituality. I am really in tune with your approach! I visit your website since I have very interested in Taoïsm (particularly from Mantak Chia) and I noticed many similarities.
I have two questions and I would be very grateful to you if you take one minute to answer me:
-Would you know by any chance a man (on the Internet or literature) who develops the same approach like yours for women, but for men?
-Could you maybe recommend me healthy sextoy brands (crystals-made would be the best) that would be compatible for men?
I know that you made a video about anal sex some time ago. You mentioned prostatic massage I just wanted to confirm you that it is for me a very high pleasure moment! And I am not gay but heterosexual…
Many great thanks in advance and I wish you all the best in your life!
Alex
Hey Alex! Thanks so much for commenting. I’m glad you resonate with my style. I have some resources for you – if you’re interested in more resources for men that are based in Taoism (and Tantra too) you can check out MyTinySecrets (Adina Rivers) on YouTube, Layla Martin and Omooni.com.
They have courses or videos for men too. You can also check out http://www.chakrubs.com. Most of the products are for women, but I think they have a butt plug called The Root that should be for men and women!
With love,
Amber